Thursday, December 26, 2013

Circles of anger and kindness

Christmas,New Year - wonderful holidays , time for family, friends, presents , happiness and peace. Amazing time when everything is in like fairy tale. 
I have a little story for you: 
Once morning one man -director of big company- woke up in a bad mood. He didn't have problems, he just didn't like morning at that day. He went to the office and yelled on one of employees, just because he had a bad mood. So that employee was upset now, he went home, met wife and yelled at her about food.. just because he was upset that director yelled at him. Now wife was so upset that she hit their cat..  just because her husband yelled at her. At that evening director went to the dinner to that employee. Cat was so angry that was hit because of anything, that bit director when he came to house. Circle of anger was closed.
We always have a choice: to continue this anger circle or to stop everything. 
I know that it's hard. How is it: to forgive those who brought you pain? But forgiveness makes us much stronger Nd better. Find power to get over and forgive. 
And now is a great time to do it- Christmas/ New Year. Just give them a little present or a compliment. You even can't imagine how surprised they will be. And it will make them stop and think about their worldview. 
Very useful to see this video - boomerang (circle) of kindness

Thanks to this article for inspiration.

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